Caring for a loved one living with dementia can bring both meaningful moments and real challenges, especially when it comes to communication.
As dementia progresses, conversations may not flow as easily, and it can sometimes feel difficult to connect the way you once did. In this post, we’ll explore practical tips to support communication to foster trust, reduce frustration, and continue sharing special moments together.
General Communication Tips
- Stay calm and patient – Speak slowly and gently; avoid rushing.
- Use simple, clear language – Short sentences and familiar words work best.
- One idea at a time – Break down information into smaller steps.
- Non-verbal cues matter – Maintain eye contact, smile, and use reassuring touch if appropriate.
- Avoid correcting too much – Focus on the feelings behind their words instead of the accuracy.
- Give extra time – Allow them to process and respond without pressure.
Understanding Their Perspective
- Validate emotions – Even if the facts are confused, their feelings are real. Acknowledge them.
- Enter their reality – Instead of arguing, gently redirect or go along with their version of events when possible.
- Use reminiscence – Talking about the past (childhood, family, favorite activities) can spark comfort and connection.
Practical Techniques
- Ask yes/no questions instead of open-ended ones (e.g., “Would you like tea?” instead of “What would you like to drink?”).
- Use names rather than pronouns (“This is your daughter, Sarah” instead of “She’s here”).
- Support with visuals – Photos, written notes, and cues can help understanding.
- Limit distractions – Turn off the TV or reduce background noise during conversation.
- Maintain routines – Familiarity reduces stress and makes communication smoother.
Emotional Connection
- Be reassuring – Tone of voice and body language often communicate more than words.
- Celebrate small moments – A smile, a laugh, or even sitting together quietly can be powerful.
- Focus on dignity – Speak to them as an adult, not as a child.
With patience, understanding, and a few of these helpful strategies, it is possible to maintain meaningful exchanges that bring comfort and preserve connection.
For more advice and support, we have an amazing Dementia Coach and our whole team is well versed in dementia support. We’d love to help. Call Proactive Seniors at 403 809 1971.
